voicing out

jo...this is for you...
firstly, i kind of understand where you are coming from...a partner will always be different from frens..yes i agree with you in a way after all we dont stay and live with frens whereas for partner yes...as we getting older reality hits us..we gotta make decisions and im pretty sure finding the one to marry seems to be the toughest of it all...so the next question like we all ponder is sometimes " are we marrying the right person?"... i agree with tam there is no exactly the right person...its how we work things out together and whether communication is exchanged between the two parties and of coz it comes with honesty and trust...our evil world is filled with zillions and trillions of pp and remember no one is perfect...so learn to love the person who u decide on it...like accept their flaws (which of coz sometimes maybe difficult) and love them for who they be...even if you thk u find the mr perfect...there will definitely be someone better out there...this a neverending vicious cycle....like how water evaporates into the sky and comes down as rain...i.e. fact of life...
as we are approaching the big 3-0...i guess time is definitely not on our side...my mum just came back from cambodia and she was telling me how unfortunate the kids are over there...like bathe and wash their clothes in a dirty river while pp like us complain about being hot and all this stuff...and like what renee say reflect...reflections....reflecting....and evaluate jo...only you can help yourself...its no use we try to drill in your head...i'm sure you have the audacity to thk and know what is best for yourself..jo the impt thing is to stick with your decision...like how i stick to my decision....we must learn to let go and be forward looking..its not easy its painful but as a chinese saying goes " a good horse dont eat backward grass!" hahah aka "hao ma bu chi hui tow cao".....sometimes if we are too indecisive and try to put our feet in too many boats we will just give way and drown...
im just giving you my thoughts and just wanna share with you how i feel....like these few days i've been also quite low morale coz of work and all...sometimes i also feel like what the hell im heading towards...i guess at this facet of our life we are all just worrying and have bad days here and there i guess the impt thing for us now is to pick ourselves up and just have to tell ourselves to go on ....a day still pass whether we are happy or not...so why should we make ourselves miserable and we shall try to be happy ya?
well like what we say....we will be there for you...we will always be a listening ear okies? xoxo